blackballoon
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Candle Magic.........Need Help!
Ok, I need to know what colour candle to burn if i want some one to like me. Some of the books and websites i've been on have either said Pink, Red, Or Green. I also have to burn one for my friend to get a guy to like her. How do i do this? I know how to do it, but the candle colors have been confusing...can someone help me??
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11/26/2005, 8:24 am
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Re: Candle Magic.........Need Help!
Khaire blackballoon~
Unfortunately your question will not receive the answer you hoped for as it is against the Wiccan ethic to influence another's will so directly, magically or otherwise (An' ye harm none, do what ye will), which is exactly what you will be doing by casting such a Spell.
Love Magick is a complex issue within the Wiccan community as questions relating to it crop up in forums and at gatherings all the time. Think about it this way...if you were the recipient/victim/subject of a Love Spell, how you would feel about losing your compass of feeling (your intuition, gut senses); your orientation flung into disparate confusion? I am betting you'd feel pretty upset and frightened. Never wish something on another that you would not wish on yourself. Witchcraft is not the coward's answer to success and feat, but the seeker's way to fulfillment and empowerment.
If you truly want Love simply attune yourself to its current and openly declare to the Universe that you are ready to accept Love into your life. It will come as it is needed.
Namaste, Gede...
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11/26/2005, 8:42 am
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Re: Candle Magic.........Need Help!
But what if i just want them to notice me, not like fall in love with me..what would i do then?
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11/26/2005, 9:19 am
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Re: Candle Magic.........Need Help!
I find the best way to get a guy to notice you is to go up to him and say, "Hey. Did you do the math homework for Mrs. Smith? ... Oh god, I know, it was really hard, usually it isn't so bad. Hey, want to study together some time?" Or something along those lines. Put on a charming smile, wear a little perfume, and you are good to go.
The best "magickal" advice I can give when it comes to love spells or anything of that nature...is that usually doing something general or non-focused is the closest thing considered to be "O.K." I am willing to bet that if you want someone to notice you who hasn't yet, the issue is shyness, so work on that. One thing you can do is work with your aura to make it bolder, influence it with your mind and thoughts to be yellow for communicativeness. This will help to open up a new world of possibilities if you can be more bold.
Good luck.
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11/26/2005, 9:52 am
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Re: Candle Magic.........Need Help!
Hi,
Im with Gede on this one. Love spells are a tricky area because you dont want to manipulate any specific person into doing something they normally wouldnt do, unfortunetly even having someone notice you when they normally wouldnt is a little iffy. Generally Im the type of person to use magic if all other options fail. Have you even tried talking to this person, getting to know them in school or anything?
as a note, please watch the way you word your spell related questions because we do have a "no spell-begging" policy. But your question was ok.
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I was totally going to reply to this . . . but everyone else did with helpful and positive advice!
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Re: Candle Magic.........Need Help!
Well just to go along with the subject...if I want to use a candle does it matter if i've used it before? Even since I didnt use it for anything related to Wicca...
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8/18/2009, 1:42 am
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Re: Candle Magic.........Need Help!
I don't like to reuse items personally because I place a lot of value on the history of the item, energetically speaking. Not everyone does that, of course. If you can ignore the history than a good cleansing and blessing (which is standard in most candle magick) should take care of the old energies especially if it hasn't ever been used in a magickal context before.
How do you feel about reusing the candle?
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Re: Candle Magic.........Need Help!
well i'm not sure. i'll think about it more because now i have more to think about
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Re: Candle Magic.........Need Help!
If you've got the time, try it both ways 
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