Help me Hi Im Dakota Rima. I am a 13 year old with written runboard parental permissions. recentaly my household has been yelling and aurguing
I can't control my temper. When you have a school life of getting bullied and pushed around its tough not to loose control. Please help me...
Re: Help me Hey Dakota, I can understand how when you get bullied and pushed around at school then come home and the family are all arguing and yelling it can be easy to really lose it. But please don't, you losing it does nothing to help the situation and what you need is help not more of the same.
I don't know where you go to school but most schools now days have a program in place to help students cope with bullying and intimidation. I am the Transportation Director at my school district, that means that I oversee all the school buses and routes. We have a program at all our campuses to take care of this kind of problem but you have to make the first step otherwise no one knows that it is happening.
I strongly recoommend that you talk to the counselor at your school or the principal but if you feel uncomfortable with them talk to a favorite teacher and let them help you.
On the home situation talk to your parents and tell them how you feel and ask them to try and help you cope with it. If that doesn't help talk to the Minister at your Church or if you don't go to church regularly go to a local church and talk to a minister, or you can talk to the counselor at school about this problem also.
But remember Jesus never lost control of his temper even when he drove the money changers out of the temple. It was then that He had a righteous anger because they defiled His Fathers House but He still remained in control. So talk to God about it, you don't need a fancy prayer because GOD is right there with you anyway. He knows your problem but He can't do anything until you ask for help just as you did here. You asked for help and GOD put it on my heart to help you so I am here making these suggestions to you about how to get that help. That is what GOD does. He uses someone to help you but you have to tell them and then allow them to help you, but you can always talk to GOD. He is your Heavenly Father and wants what is best for you. As I said before you don't need a fancy prayer, just find a place of quiet where you can sit down and talk to him and then do just that sit down and tell him all your problems and allow him to handle it. God is Your Father, Savior, Guardian, and your Best Friend, so talk to him just like you would your best friend.
I will pray for you and your family and just remember Jesus Loves You!!!
Father God I come before your Throne and lift up to you this young man Dakota and I ask Father that You help him with his temper and with his family problem. Father I ask that you give him the courage to go to these others and seek their help, and Father I ask that You give him your peace when he does so he knows that he is doing the right thing. Father I thank you for being there for Dakota and looking after him. In Jesu's Name I do pray AMEN!
Dakota let me know how it goes and I will continue to pray for you!!
Re: Help me Hey Dakota, I will continue to keep you in my prayers!
Let me know from time to time how you are doing and especially let me know if you want me to pray for something specific.
May God Bless You!!!
Pastor Junior
