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Mass Topic: What Do Women Want?


This is going to be the first on Runboard of its kind, a mass topic concerning the ladies. Tomorrow night, I am sending out a mass email to all females that are a member of PH, old and new, inviting them to join in on this discussion.It is 4:26am and I was laying in bed and got an inspiration:

Why not ask the women themselves what they want? You can talk about anything, yourself, what you are looking for, sex, your thoughts on anything, your life, anything there is that you would be willing to tell. This topic will ONLY be for members of PH, which consists of ALL women aside from myself and Beavis (Wizard sticks to his own thing emoticon).I am very serious about this, so serious in fact I am going to do a PH first; put in place a few rules for this topic. *OMG did he just say rules? LOL!*

~Do not, under any circumstances, bash someone for what they have said.

~Please try not to bring up anything that is going to make you regret it later on for telling it. Iti sn't fun when you tell someone something just for the benefit of being consoled, I hate people like that.

~Be mindful that every single one of you is different, and have different preferences, whether it be sexuality, nationality, and etcetera.

PH and everyone in it is well known for the brutal honesty and open mindedness about absolutely everything, and there is one thing amongst all of us we hold very dear, and that is what is said in PH, stays in PH. Yeah that quote, per se, is tossed around quite a bit, but if you take a look around, ahem, specially at the British Truth thread, you'll see exactly how well we keep to that and why. Now I am not saying we can't joke around here and there, but least try to be serious in nature when it comes to telling something important.

I know, this is NOT like us to actually have to keep on with a topic like this, but I really do think something can come of it, I believe it CAN work. Not to mention aside from the wisdom it will bring, I am interested in getting to know yuns better anyways. You may ask, "why not get to know the guys better then?" Easy answer, aside from who I named, do you see any guys around here? LOL! I seemed to make the best and closest friends with the girls, so there.

For some who will see this and wonder who I am and what I am, I am going to give a sort of detailed and as brief as I can history of me, cept not from when I was born kind of history, a general. emoticon

My name is Jason Douglas. I live in Missouri, a small town to the south, and am 20 years old, going on 21 in a few days. I am parcially blind due to an eye disease, never know when it's going to give out. I graduated High School with a 3.8GPA and have an IQ of 167, which you will rarely see me use that much brainpower. LOL! I live at home, am single, and could care less btw (for now), I am straight (yet feminine), I cannot EVER drive a car due to my eye sight. Ummm...I am a weirdo. Yep, can you believe it? hehe I hate with all of the fibers I have, people who lie. I despise them, I do. Never in my presence lie to me or about someone or you will not be on the recieving end of a good day. I live to make everyone else around me happy, whether I am miserable or not, everyone else comes first. I am on Dial Up cuz I am super poor and my dad doesn't make a whole lot either, but we get by. I hate to work but when I do t is a sight to behold, just don't hold your breath. I hold my friends even higher on a pedastal than one could ever, right up there with my family. And I am tormented by a ghost in my house, or should I say trailor?

That's the jist of *me*. Many of you know it, I just had to get things rolling. Oh and I am a porn-o-holic. That's a keeper, hehe.

I am throwing this to the girls now, so they can set a precedence for how things should be rolling along. I am going to ask questions here and there and if I don't have a question, I am merely going to do this emoticon to let you know I am indeed paying attention and keeping tabs on things. I really hope this topic and idea works out, I wanna see something great emerge from it someday. :) This topic is now *Stickied*

Take it away girls, I'm counting on you!

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I'm the person that always sat in the back of the class so I wouldnt get picked on or have to go first for anything.













So Im gonna sit back here, roll up paper for spit balls and wait for some else to go first. emoticon

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I was kinda expecting Marci to jump on this and get it rolling emoticon She loves this kind of thing emoticon

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5/18/2008, 9:34 pm
 
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Ah you know me too well my friend.

I'll be back later to discuss this further. But one thing I detest, like you, is a liar. If you say you went out last night, but lied about being drunk with a stripper, you'll get into MORE trouble for not telling me. Because so help me God when I find out (and I always do) then your life will be more intensely hellish than you can imagine. Might as well be truthful right from the start. Because love without trust is nothing more than an illusion.

Gotta go for now.

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emoticon ^That's the kind of thing I am looking for in this emoticon See ya soon Marci-lin!

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OMG did he just say rules? LOL.

Funny I can usually tell when someone lies I just get a feeling and know.

I am a down right honest person, with a very out spoken voice, sometimes I do not speak my voice, I just let it slide, but I feel I can be open and honest here.
I like to make jokes about everything, You got to learn to laugh life is so short.

I want to go home and cuddle up to my honey, I wish he would rub my back, I hurt today.
Somedays are better than others.
I love and respect Jason, and very glad to know you bud.
Wow 21 in three days we will have to buy you a vitural Beer.

This can be fun...
Now ask a question.

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5/18/2008, 9:53 pm
 
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emoticon Cirtual beer is fun emoticon

I guess we can start with the basic premise of the topic, what did you look for, what did you need or want, before you met Rushman, and thereafter?

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Before I met him I did not know I needed him.
But he did do just the right thing.
I had been single for seven years after my husband left me, I had many guys hit on me...
I guess I was just waiting for someone to be all natural and just ask me out to dinner.
Simple right?
well they do not all just be themselves, and if they do their just an asshole.
Well I had some line thrown at me.. and I would just shake my head and say yeah right.

so if you ever want to talk to a girl or go out with her, I would just say, ask her to dinner or something like that. it worked for me.
But then he is off the wall a strange just like me.
Yes another weirdo....
I have a very high IQ as well, and I would say many of the guys you find in bars are not.
Oh and yes we sort of met once but then re met in the bar.
I like to sing. and I do not drink but I like to get a coke.
He bought me a coke and asked me out to dinner and well we just were right together from the start.


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5/18/2008, 10:06 pm
 
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So in those respects he was the one you waited for. emoticon

Married life, what are the struggles for you, if any?

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5/18/2008, 10:09 pm
 
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Yes I thought I was in love the first time, I was married, and I thought I was to be the good wife.
Cook clean take care of the man.
But what did all that get me he walked out on me and three children.
So now, things are much different.
My hubby who you all know as Rushman, does things for me.
He helps with laundry. he never tell me what to do.
I guess the first one did ruin a few good quality's I once upon a time had.
But I am much better now, I was pushed around and did what I was told like a dog.

Now if he wants something he will ask me but he would never try to tell me what to do.
I am very independant. but yet not totally, I want someone to take care of me.
I do not want to have to be away from my family to suport them but if I need to I do what it takes to make our lives good.
My boys mean so much to me.
I want to be the best mom I can.
it is not always easy but the rewards are well worth it all.
 about you question, Marriage is not always easy or perfect, but it can be great with just the right person.

my philosphy is live with someone for a while and make sure once you get comfortable around each other you will see their true side. then you will know if it is right or not.

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5/18/2008, 10:23 pm
 
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Sometimes it can be tough to do that though, because they may be the type who know what they have to do and hide those things til you two get settled down, that's one thing many people fear.

What s your perfect fantasy you hope to someday be a reality?

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5/18/2008, 10:26 pm
 
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What s your perfect fantasy you hope to someday be a reality?


Not Sexual?

Humm give me a minute to think.


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5/18/2008, 10:31 pm
 
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emoticon I already said anything goes, why not, it could be sexual too. emoticon

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I absolutely hate it when men are one extreme or another. For example...

A friend of mine whom I'd loved to death was sweet on me, but I never knew it until I was with someone else. If he would ever have OPENED HIS MOUTH and said anything of the sort to me, I would have left whats-his-name and been with him. No buts about it. We were best friends, and I can imagine that he was concerned about messing up the friendship. But everyone knows life's too short for that crap. Most of the women in my family don't live to see 40. So I have to make do with the life that I have while I have it. I'm not one for pulling punches, beating around the bush, or waiting forever for someone to make up their mind as to whether or not they want me. If you want me, come and get me was always my dating philosophy. Perhaps why I sucked so badly at it.

The other extreme is an awfully pushy man. One who knows all the moves, knows precisely what to say, etc., etc. That's one thing I'm not into. I think of them as smooth talkers, players if you will. Some chicks like to bag sloppy seconds. I don't. I find it gross. If a guy is that pushy and that smooth and that fast of a mover in the relationship, I hate that. I also hate, hate, HATE clingy guys. Ones who have to talk to you like 768578563456768578 times a day or text you endlessly or want to know precisely what I'm doing every second of every minute. Even when I'm taking a ****. Good grief that's aggravating. I'm a free spirit, if I'm not given my space to be....myself, to have some sense of identity other than "wife/girlfriend/lover" I would die. Literally. I would give up living. I have to have my own space.

"A caged bird can't sing."

 Some dudes want to invade every part of your being. That's soooooo annoying. It's not romance, it's obsession. And it's revolting.

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You say the word fantasy and I either think of Sex or dragons...
I like a guy who can be himself and not have to be phoney.

and I am not into Drama all the time.
Funny how some people seem to need drama in their life. not me.

I am glad that my time is going so fast one more hour and I can go home.
I better call and say good night to the boys.

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