Belle
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People Change
No matter how much they say they wont change, people always tend to do.
One morning you wake up and realize your best friend has turned into a complete stranger due to the fact that they have gotten married, and you no longer have anything in common.
A few months down the line and that friendship seems as if it never was.
Is it them that has changed, or is it you( I should say me).
As the saying goes, Change is inevitable, but that kind really leaves you feeling miserable.
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8/29/2003, 3:48 pm
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Laurie1981
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Re: People Change
Change can never be easy its alwyas going to cause pain at some point, change often means leaving others behind or being left behind, or leaving a part of yourself behind. Its never easy or fair, BUT change is needed we cannot forever remain who we were, life experiences good and bad change us, and its not a bad thing but yes it is heartbreaking at times, the real problem is however being unwilling to change getting stuck in that rut and believing its what you want, fear of change can cause you to do this but then you may mis out on so much.
Whilst it might be scary i have realised that life isn't baout being happy, its about living, feeling that heartbreak as you realise you have grown apart,and whilst change may take you new places and even to new friends you can always have the memories.
I can remmeber promises made to friends about always being together and the same, and truthfully its childish to think like that because we wont and we can't stay the same.
I sometimes wonder how i would be now, as at 17 something happened that tuurned my world upside down and i changed, completely i guess i was more fun loving naive and now i'm more cynical, but i don't hate the changes i'm still me its taken people around me a long time to get used to it and i have lost people along the way, buti don't regret a single moment of it.
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9/2/2003, 6:25 pm
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Re: People Change
I am kinda going threw this too. I use to hang out with my freinds every day almost all the free time I had I spent with them. The have not changed they still act like kids and dont seem to want to grow up and move out on there own and become someone. They sit at home and play video games and stuff and waste there money. I hvae not talk to them in a couple months and I only have talked to them a few times in the last year because they dont want to change like me. I want to grow up and become my own person and not have someone do everything for me. I thought I would be freinds with these 3 guys for the rest of my life. But I have not talk to the one who was my best freind in about a year and i may never see him again because he is in prison for 5-9 years. He never wanted to grow up and change and now he is got him self in Prison for a while. He is one person who could have really change for the good.
I still got alot i want to change about my self. Sence i got my job i have not been as shy because I have to talk to people. Its easy to change when you have to change.
Laurie- You mean you was more fun when you was younger? You must have been a blast to be around then because your alot of fun now.I think You just grew up really fast after that happen. Nothing wrong with growing up.Hopefully you dont change muchnow because your almost perfect .
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I'm almost perfect too TJ!
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9/4/2003, 6:04 pm
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People do change a lot. And most of my "friends" cant accept it. Because I have changed. nor can my "aquintences" (sp?) Because, I have changed a lot. And no one will ever even think of giving me a second chance. And i wish they would..
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I know someone who is forty-five and still best friends with her closest friend from...seventh grade, I think. They've both moved, gotten married, gotten divorced, had kids in one case...
It just shows that friendships can stay close (even with changes happening to and around it) if both people value it enough.
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Change is constant and never stopping. The slightest may not be noticed, but when continuously added to, becomes full in the open. Sometimes it is for the best, sometimes it is for the worst, we can't help it. It hurts sometimes, and sometimes it's like the brush of a feather. But we never know until we notice it and take charge.
Change will happen, no matter how much we resist. There isn't a real way to stop something, that is a part of life's cycle.
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"You will do foolish things, but do them with enthusiasm. "--Colette
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