Cutie T
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Loved and lost.
"its better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all...(i duno what the hell the person who said this was smokin)
I mean seriously if you have never loved then how could you miss it how could you know what it feels like.. in my personal oppinion(which i am pretty sure is wrong) i think that it would be easyer if you ahve never loved becuz NOTHING will ever be like your first true love NOTHING.. its like extasy after the first time it NEVER gives you the same rush its always jsut a step below it never the same... well in a way that is what love is its ike extasy becuase it is addictive and it is never the same as the first time.. you can love some1 with all your heart but it will never be the same as your first love... (yes lots of issues in this right now) butif you have never loved then you would not get hooked and you would not know what it feels like to love hence no suffering when love is lost becuz there wsa no love to start with... but it is a 2 sided coin if you never love then you will never know the Joy that love can bring... (speaking from a lil bit of experince in the heart break area)i personally would love to tear a few years from my life namely my years with eric cuz as i said if it never happened you cannot miss it or think on it becuz it was never there... "you cannot miss what you never had" again that is a 2-sided coin becuz you may not miss what you never had but you can long for it.. so i hope i have said it ina way you all can understand as i know barly any of this makes sences lol i will try and revise this later when i get my glasses back lol but i hope you all getthe genreal idea of that i mean.
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Your not my god,
your not my friend,
your not the ones that i will walk with in the end,
Your not the truth,
your a temporary shot,
and you Ruin peoples' lives and you don't give a second thought
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1/10/2004, 2:42 pm
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Re: Loved and lost.
Man... very hard to decide whether it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. And that is for all the reasons you said, Travis.
As I read what you wrote, I was going back in my head and reviewing all the relationships I have had and wondering if I would--like you--want to tear any of them out of my life. Think I wouldn't.
If you never love, then you never know what it feels like. I think that if I were at the moment of my death and looking back at my life, if I had never known love I would go to death with much regret. But if I had, I would look back on every moment--from the intense joy of the first love to the intense agony of the first loss--with a sigh but with no regrets.
I agree about the first love. Nothing is ever quite as intense as that. And the pain of losing your first love is beyond any hell you can imagine. But other loves come close, close enough.
And the bad relationships, the ones you are tempted to want to wipe from your life, they just make you appreciate the good ones a bit more. Perception is all about contrasts. Couldn't see the white if it weren't for the black, couldn't feel you if you didn't know sorrow--if you don't know one, you wouldn't recognize the other.
And you are young. Time is on your side when it comes to relationships and love. You won't ever feel your first love again, but you will feel the wonder of new love and the joy of true love.
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And by and by my Soul returned to me, And answered "I Myself amd Heav'n and Hell"
Omar Khayyam
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