natural76
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Hello for Oz
Hi,
I've been reading the posts here for some time and thought it was time to introduce myself.
A bit of a background. I'm in my mid 30's and a size 12E natural and close to 6' tall. I was a late bloomer at school and bit chubby so I didn't have the issue with breast size till last few years, but when they grew it was too much attention I that I could handle, even though at home I was very comfortable with myself. At uni I bloomed to a size 16-18 as I wasn't comfortable going out much and used food as a comfort.
After 20 I was depressed and had a sore back and approached a doctor to consider a reduction. He said there are two ways we can do this. The easiest is I just write a referral, the 2nd we look at the real problem and fix it. He said give him 4mths and potentially it will save alot of money, I said ok lets try.
First he said most women who ask for a reduction are over weight, fix this and you will save alot of money, pain and feel better. Also he has seen women get a reduction, then loose weight then be depressed over what they don't have. 2nd thing he said was posture and back strength, mine was poor. He then introduced me to his nurse (and wife) who was also fairly busting. and I worked with her to reduce weight, improve posture, build back strength and learn about living with big boobs. She indicated not all smaller women are happy, if they were why are there so many paying to get what nature gave me. Next was clothing choice, focus on stretch fabrics, wrap dresses and consider getting made to order for those special pieces.
Around this time I met a wonderful guy and later married. He soon new what I was doing and supported me all round. I knew he was special because when he talked to me our eyes looked at each other and have since worked out guys who look at my chest non stop are the problem, not my chest size. Reducing my chest size won't make then less an idiot.
Over time I became quite proud of my boobs and show them off as much as possible. 6/7 days a week I ave some cleavage and not afraid of showing off even in the day. I don't have back pain and often don't wear a bra. Usually only to suit the outfit, not society. ie denim skirt and fitted V tank top or T-shirt is normal, with a g-string. One thing the nurse told me, just because they are big doesn't mean you have to hide them. People will still look. My style is skirt or dress, pants rarely, jeans occasional and short denim shorts on hot weekends.
After a wedding where I was bridesmaid and forced to wear a custom made corset, I now wear corsets most of the cooler months, teh style I go for have cleevage or moulded to the breast shape, don't go above the shoulder blade etc and as my husband says if its not completely closed don't bother, it looks wrong. Madame Sher was a good inspiration, although I don't like a front busk so hubby helps me get dressed. There are also some that have a very casual look. If there made well they can be much more comfortable than a bra and enables me to have bare shoulders, which I love. Corset that provide a shelf for the breast to sit on but expose the nipples and breast shape and wobble. My husband loves the natural movement, also feels very sexy to me too.
One of my most favorite corsets that actually took me some time to wear confidently is one that cups the breast from directly below the nipple and around to the side only. Reaching across the breast in the center only to hold it in place. The bodice section curves up below the breast to the center following the usual rib pattern. Basically while not in a pushed together cleavage look there is alot of exposed flesh in the middle and the breasts are very perky in appearance as they are not pushed together, but more held apart and hence out. Overall shape is no different to other cup corsets, but it looks more dramatic. Confidence is the key.
My husband and I are going to renew our wedding vows and I'm looking at a less conservative white leather wedding corset dress with a 6" reduction. (google it)
A few years back I asked by Husband for some expensive furniture, he agreed on the basis that I remain topless on Sunday's for 3 months while at home and with no visitors. I agreed and really enjoyed it so haven't really stopped weather permitting and even in front of some friends who's wives sometimes follow suit. Rule is for all visitors, if I invite you over I'll cover up unless I don't think you will care, if you drop in un announced I don't change.
While I don't mind others looking at my boobs, they are no go for touching. I had a female partner at uni for a few months while in "I hate men mode". I told my husband this a few years into our marriage and he said he didn't believe me. So one day feeling horny I suggested that we try a 3 some with a women of MY choice and he was not allowed penetration unless I said so. This only lasted a short time before we both had our fun and realized we didn't need it in our relationship.
My husband I run our own business, for which I came in later and I usually wear a VFD wrap dress or custom made 3 piece skirt suit with corset to the office with plenty of cleavage. Many of the female office girls soon followed when I started turning up. I also wear alot of custom made leather and suede in winter which can be both professional and sexy and casually my husband loves me in sexy denim. Either skirts short to long, he actually likes long fishtail look, but also fitted dresses with snap closure. Nothing from the normal fashion ranges will fit well, so he often gets photos and sends them to my seamstress.
At beaches and on our boat I'm usually topless. Topless or not, guys look anyway.
I usually get alot of positive compliments about my dress standards as I always try to look well groomed and tidy and my outfits being mostly custom made fit perfectly. So I think this means I can show off cleavage easier without being too trashy.
After turning the age 30 and with two breast feeding sessions behind me, I returned to the same doctor, but this time to get an uplift as I saggy swinging breasts is something I'll leave to later on. Certainly it doesn't suit me dress or lifestyle just yet.
Regards
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3/6/2009, 8:20 pm
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Re: Hello for Oz
welcome to the board..always good to hear from new people...and you sound like a lovely person..
liz
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3/7/2009, 12:35 pm
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