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I never really thought of myself as an exhibitionist, even though I've enjoyed being topless or nude for just about as long as I can remember.
Recently though, I've realized that I really do like to be seen and that even in the back yard, I purposely walk through areas that are open to public view. And at the beach or even a friend's house topless or nude, I like it when guys look at me and kinda hope I turn them on. And I really like it if a guy makes a nice comment. That really turns me on.
It seems different with my fiance. He likes being nude (he had never done it in public until he met me) because he finds it relaxing, but could care less if others are looking at him or not. He does like it when men are watching me though. Are men and women different that way? Or is it just us?
@Dear Carly,
it´s a little bit difficult for me to say how male brains are working on this issue. But I know at least some males who´ve a tendency to "show", too - why not calling it exhibitionism, too?
Now, I can only add that my feelings are very similar to yours - my toplessness has much to do with the fact that it turns me on when other people can see my nude boobs and that it turns me even more on when other people made comments about my bared boobs - nice ones or not so nice ones. I´m a confessing exhibitionist and I think we both are not the single poor women who´re this.
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yours nudie Nicci
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I just think it natural that we want to be found attractive by others we find attractive and sometimes even not attactive.
We all want to be accepted or favoured.Its natural.I disagree with the statement though about women alone displaying as a courtship ritual.In many species the male is the one doing all the exhibiting in order to attract a female.
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6/17/2009, 8:29 pm
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From a very young age I have craved having men see my girl parts. I am blessed being married to a voyeur that gets off on my hobby too. But for me, exposing myself has to be a game. The subtlety of making spontaneous public exposure appear to be accidental is such a rush. This is especially true when there is a single (preferably) hot guy target that gets to see my nipple right out there.
If I can tell that he has noticed that my nipples can be seen inside my carelessly unbuttoned shirt when I move just so, I then can decide if I want to catch him looking. Usually I dip my shoulder or bend forward just enough and simply let him look and enjoy me. God that is hot. He is a stranger after all and he can see right down my shirt. But once in a while I will lock eyes with a man and smile. That is electricity right down to my crotch. He knows that I know that he can see. But I never reveal if it was all innocent and accidental or not...
Like that you revel in the power your body has over men.To show that you are a sexual being is not a weakness or fault but a celebration.I like that frisson when eyes lock with strangers.
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6/17/2009, 8:31 pm
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One of the nicest things a guy ever said to me was when I had just started going topless in college. I was at the beach alone, and two guys walked by. One said to the other, "wouldn't you like to get your hands on those?" It was such a turn on and made me feel really good.
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I am a late arrival when it comes to exhibitionism (mid 40s when I first took my top off on a public beach). Last summer, I started wearing a g for the first time and I haven't looked back since. On a public beach I now love being an object of male attention. When I first experienced these feelings I thought I might have been odd, but now (especially with the encouragement of some girls on here) I realise it's completely natural and I make the most the pleasure of being an exhibitionist.
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I remember being in an English class a few months ago and started drawing on a notepad out of boredom. I don't know why, but I began to sketch a naked girl and after a short time I realised I was actually drawing myself- I guess that's because my main reference point for the female body is myself! I ended up sketching three different versions, all completely nude.
A few minutes later a couple of the boys in class noticed the piece of paper and asked me whether I'd drawn myself. In a moment of courage, I signed my name at the bottom, passed it over and told them to enjoy it!
This was a while ago, when my urge for this sort of thing was still developing. I'm a little shy about my body but I don't regret what I did- it's not like they were photos, only drawings. And it still makes me smile to imagine the boys looking at me and wondering how true-to-life the pictures really are.
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I remember being in an English class a few months ago and started drawing on a notepad out of boredom. I don't know why, but I began to sketch a naked girl and after a short time I realised I was actually drawing myself- I guess that's because my main reference point for the female body is myself! I ended up sketching three different versions, all completely nude.
A few minutes later a couple of the boys in class noticed the piece of paper and asked me whether I'd drawn myself. In a moment of courage, I signed my name at the bottom, passed it over and told them to enjoy it!
This was a while ago, when my urge for this sort of thing was still developing. I'm a little shy about my body but I don't regret what I did- it's not like they were photos, only drawings. And it still makes me smile to imagine the boys looking at me and wondering how true-to-life the pictures really are.
Charlotte, It's great to hear that you are exploring your sexuality! You are a kindred spirit here. I hope you feel free to share your progress with us.
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marie_a_ross@roadrunner.com
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I remember being in an English class a few months ago and started drawing on a notepad out of boredom. I don't know why, but I began to sketch a naked girl and after a short time I realised I was actually drawing myself- I guess that's because my main reference point for the female body is myself! I ended up sketching three different versions, all completely nude.
A few minutes later a couple of the boys in class noticed the piece of paper and asked me whether I'd drawn myself. In a moment of courage, I signed my name at the bottom, passed it over and told them to enjoy it!
This was a while ago, when my urge for this sort of thing was still developing. I'm a little shy about my body but I don't regret what I did- it's not like they were photos, only drawings. And it still makes me smile to imagine the boys looking at me and wondering how true-to-life the pictures really are.
Where were you when I was in school!
(Oh yeah... avoiding nerdboys like me... forgot for a moment...)
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Where were you when I was in school!
(Oh yeah... avoiding nerdboys like me... forgot for a moment...)
you'd be surprised, I'm not exactly one of the cool set! which is why the boys found it even more exciting 
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