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Page:  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  toplessnorthernlass Registered user Global user Registered: 10-2005 Posts: 9 Karma: 3 (+3/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless hello everyone, my name's sharon, and this is my first post here, though ive been reading this site for a while im just trying to pluck up the courage to go topless for the first time on holiday with my partner in spain. we've never been abroad together before, and i think now is the perfect time to take my first leap into topfreedom. im not particularly shy, but the first time anyone sees my breasts will be scary i think. im determined to do it though. ive been sorely tempted to do it on a beach here in the UK, but noone else has when ive been there, so that idea went out of the window. as an in between step, ive been spending some time topless in the house and im getting more comfortable, slowly. my bf took a few pics, for his own pleasure mainly i think, but im happy with that, although noones seen them yet. maybe this could be the place to put them, if its allowed? it might be nice to start off my topfree experience where people can see me, but i cant see them. i dont know, im just blabbering anyway, happy to be here! 10/23/2005, 7:36 am Send Email to toplessnorthernlass   Send PM to toplessnorthernlass 123jo Registered user Global user Registered: 07-2004 Location: Oregon Posts: 142 Karma: 25 (+25/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless Sharon, Welcome to the board As far as posting pictures here, you will need to look here: http://com4.runboard.com/btopfree.fgeneraldiscussion.t21 I posted my pics of body paint here: http://com4.runboard.com/btopfree.fdestinationinformation.t34 It was liberating to go topless for the first time and when you finally do, you will wonder why you had all the trepidation. Jo 10/23/2005, 9:48 am Send PM to 123jo toplessnorthernlass Registered user Global user Registered: 10-2005 Posts: 9 Karma: 3 (+3/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless thats great, thank you 123jo. you have beautiful breasts, and it must have taken a lot of nerve to do that with all those people there huh? Im going to post a pic somewhere now, though maybe without my face in case anyone recognises me - i hope that wont be a problem? 10/23/2005, 11:08 am Send Email to toplessnorthernlass   Send PM to toplessnorthernlass D Kent Registered user Global user Registered: 10-2005 Posts: 13 Karma: 0 (+0/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless Hi, I'm visiting this site for the first time today and have been very interested in following this dialogue. I'm writing as a "wanna be" husband of a top free woman. That might need some clarification - I'm already the husband of this wonderful woman and I'm trying to encourage her to be a wonderful TOPFREE woman. She is fairly modest and I've had no success persuading her to try it so far. Anyway, it's been really helpful to hear about all of the first time topfree experiences. It's especially good to hear how you found the courage to try it and how much you have enjoyed it since your first time. It sounds like it may be easiest for my wife if she is around other topfree women and, of course, in a very relaxed, friendly environment. I'm also hoping it will help that so many other women (hopefully even a friend or two) are finding the courage to go topfree. I'd be very interested in other suggestions any of you may have. In the meantime, I wanted to offer my support and encouragement to those of you who have taken the step and also those who are thinking about trying it for the first time. I think it's a great thing that more of today's women are going topfree for at least two reasons - they are giving themselves the enjoyment, freedom and self fulfillment they have missed out on for too long and they are helping to break down barriers for many future women who will also want to go topfree. My hope is that someday soon, it will be common for moms to enjoy topfree experiences with their daughters in a full family environment with the support and encouragement of their husbands and sons. Anyway, I hope that isn't too much philosophy and I'll certainly appreciate any suggestions you might be able to provide regarding how I might persuade my wife to try it. YOU GO, GIRLS !! D Kent 10/23/2005, 9:03 pm Send Email to D Kent   Send PM to D Kent 123jo Registered user Global user Registered: 07-2004 Location: Oregon Posts: 142 Karma: 25 (+25/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless Kent, I want to thank you for your support for topfreedom. As for myself it was confidence about my body that allowed me to be topfree. If she is not proud of her body and does not think she looks good topfree it would be difficult to get her to shed her top in public. Also, you may want to remove her from her normal environment and take her to some place where she would not have the possibility of running into someone she knows. My first topfree time was when I traveled to Mexico. I had the opportunity to wear my wicked weasel swim wear (a must first step as they can be quite sheer when wet) and it was wonderful to wear something more revealing and be completely acceptable. Being a shy person, this gave me more freedom. I was around other topfree women there and with some encouragement from my husband I removed my top. It changed my life. After I returned home and back into my work routine, I carried with me a new attitude and perspective. Its amazing how easy it is to get caught up in the attitudes of your surroundings. I felt rejuvenated because I was able to see a different way of life. You may not want to "nag" her about it. Encouragement and support are good but she has to want to go topfree too. Jo 10/23/2005, 9:42 pm Send PM to 123jo redheadelizabeth Moderator Global user Registered: 08-2004 Posts: 869 Karma: 5 (+92/-87) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless I second very much the "nagging" and willingness comments. I knew my husband five years before going topfree in the back yard, and nine before being in public. It was something I'd never thought of until my husband recounted episodes of witnessing topfree/nude recreation from some of his very extensive travels. He suggested it every so often, and told me he would not have except that, in others ways, he long ago figured out I have what he calls a "spirit of adventure" that made me receptive to the idea. Finally, I went for it and enjoy it, in part because I know he does too yet not in an all-consuming way. The fact is, some women enjoy it, and some won't, for a variety of reasons. Noen of my female friends do, and their reasons why make perfect sense to me. If you seem to eager about it and she doesn't, she may think you're too hung up on objectifying her (not that a little of that from your husband is bad ) and even if she relents and goes for it anyway just to please you, she'll see it as a chore and not associate pleasant things with topfreedom. Unless she's receptive, she'll not like it, and it may take a long period of low-key suggestions to ever get her to want to try it. She may never be receptive, or she may try it and not really enjoy it. It really does all go back to her basic attitudes and, if they aren't receptive to the idea and later accepting of it, it'll never happen enjoyably for her and would only bring negativity into your relationship. I'm not suggesting there's nothing you can do to have her embrace topfreedom, but it must happen absolutely on her terms and all you really can do is to help facilitate, rather than initiate, any move she makes in that direction. 10/24/2005, 9:40 am Send Email to redheadelizabeth   Send PM to redheadelizabeth D Kent Registered user Global user Registered: 10-2005 Posts: 13 Karma: 0 (+0/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless Jo, Thanks so much for the thoughtful reply. And I appreciate the suggestions - including that nagging could be counterproductive. I'm not really the nagging type anyway, but was looking more for ideas and an environment that might make her want to try it - with a little bit of positive support from me. The idea of being somewhere away from people she knows is a good one. I'll see what kind of vacation ideas I can come up with. Thanks again. Kent 10/24/2005, 7:51 pm Send Email to D Kent   Send PM to D Kent NaturistUK Registered user Global user Registered: 09-2005 Posts: 40 Karma: 0 (+0/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless Hi Kent, if I may just add my four pennorthworth, as you may be aware if you've read my post, I was married to my naturist husband a number of years before I would even wear a bikini in public let alone go topless or nude. It's just something that you have to feel right about. Even the example Paul gave by being nude whenever he can wouldnt persuade me until I felt the time was right. I can't explain but I just reached a stage in my life where something seemed to click into place. I'm sure your lady will join the rest of us when the place and time seem right for her. 10/25/2005, 11:05 am Send Email to NaturistUK   Send PM to NaturistUK D Kent Registered user Global user Registered: 10-2005 Posts: 13 Karma: 0 (+0/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless Hi Diana, Thanks so much for responding. I was hoping you might respond (along with the others) and help me to get the womans' perspective. I thought your posting was particularly inspirational and your original situation seems so similar to my wife - a beautiful woman who is simply very modest. As a man, I know that it is very easy for me to simply take my shirt off and I do it almost daily for one activity or another. But I know it is a much bigger decision for a woman - especially the first time. You and the other ladies have helped me understand that my wife has to want to try it - or she will probably never enjoy it. And basically, I'm not a pushy person - I've suggested that she try going topfree on several occasions, but I've always readily accepted her decision not to. So my hope is to take my wife on a vacation somewhere where topfreedom is practiced, but where she will be under no particular pressure to try it. I'm thinking, under those circumstances, she just might decide on her own to give it a try and I can simply provide moral support. It sounds like the Spanish Mediterranean beaches might be such a place? Thanks again for taking the time to respond. Kent 10/25/2005, 8:23 pm Send Email to D Kent   Send PM to D Kent NaturistUK Registered user Global user Registered: 09-2005 Posts: 40 Karma: 0 (+0/-0) Reply | Quote Re: First time topless Thanks for your comments Kent, I just hope I have encouraged someone else with my comments and I hope more ladies will post their experiences on this thread 10/26/2005, 2:45 pm Send Email to NaturistUK   Send PM to NaturistUK Add a reply Page:  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  Powered by AkBBS 0.9.5b  -  Link to us   -  Blogs   -  Hall of Honour   -  Chat Click here to get your own free message board You are not logged in (login)      Board's time is: 11/24/2009, 10:43 pm