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Whenever I'm nude it's at an appropriate place, such as a legal nude beach, so there's no reason tho think twice about who might see me. Anyone who's there fully expects to see nude or topless people, so thet's not a problem for anyone. Concertning the curious and gaekers who show up or walk through the area just for the "thrill of the peek" they can look all they want. I'm naked where I'm allowed to be, doing what I'm allowed to do and could care less if people want to stare. Hopefully, they'll come back in the future and get naked themselves!
Bare Hugs...
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Re: Toplessness around Kids
Found this thread among the archives...thought I'd add to it from our neighborhood's perspective.
Whenever the kids are around...their yards or ours...we're only topfree, like their moms were many times before. Only one little boy in the group...just turned 7. He's just little...doesn't seem to pay any attention to the fact that he's among so many topfree women...including the twins' grandma.
Asked both moms recently how they handle other kids visiting and their kids visiting other pools, etc. Lana doesn't have a pool, so other kids visiting is never an issue. She just tells the twins that everybody's different in the way they like to dress...told them it's not a secret that their mom is frequently topfree...no problem to tell other kids or moms.
Donna has a pool, so she tells moms of other kids who might come over that she doesn't own any tops...if it's uncomfortable for the kids to visit with her being topfree, then they probably need to wait until cooler weather activities. A few moms chose to not send their kids after this conversation...others had no problem...two wanted to come over with their kids to be topfree too. She also tells her kids that it's not a secret anybody needs to keep that their mom is always topfree at their pool.
As they get older...they'll have more questions. Think it's particularly good for the little boy that he sees more couples where the women and men are equally topfree in situations where that's natural. In addition, they see many, many more situations where no one is topfree, because it's not a natural situation for that.
Just some thoughts about our kids...wow, I just noticed how that came out...because they really do seem like 'our' kids now. That feels really good.
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femgr04
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What a great topic, because I was trying to decide how I was going to introduce this lifestyle to my daughter. Most of you know I'm pretty new to this so the only time my daughter sees me topless is when I'm changing my clothes. I want her to be ok with it. Right now she thinks it's stupid.
She's a teenager with a closed mind. She won't even as much as let me see a bra strap on her. I could use a little help.
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Femgr04, thats a tough situation for both of you. She already might be set in her ways and isn't comfortable being topfree around you. The last thing you want to do is pressure her. She has enough pressures already being a teen. Only thing i could say is enjoy your topfreedom when she is and isn't around. My mom, sis and myself never hid our topfreedom/nakedness since we were young when it was just female in the house. Getting ready for work or school etc. after showering. So it was just natural for us..... Goodluck and maybe as she matures and is comfortable seeing you topfree maybe her attitude will change.
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Thank you so much for the advice. I remember how tough it was being a teen. I think she takes more after my mother, who's breasts I have never even seen because she is a very private person. I'll respect that in my daughter as I have my mother. Maybe in time when she sees how comfortable I am with myself, she'll open up. If not, I will accept that. I think I tend to expect too much too soon and that is something I have to work on.
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7/27/2006, 9:15 am
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I thought of this thread yesterday when we were swimming at Donna's pool. She'd invited a friend with two children...a little boy age 6 and an infant boy age 7 months. She was comfortably topfree with me, Donna, Lana, Millie and Andy.
Since she was topfree, she also was breastfeeding her littlest one off and on. The surprise...but it shouldn't have been...came for me when I was holding the baby and he latched onto my nipple, thinking any nipple he found would yield milk. Whoa...a little pain...and a disappointed baby.
Topfree around kids? Be careful with the ones who are still breastfeeding!
Posting in just my bright yellow bikini bottoms on a very warm afternnon.
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Dear Ventanabare,
thank you for your funny little story .
But even if you´ve now a disappointed little baby in this special case  I think this is better for childs than hiding the body in prudery as if to see mommy´s tits would mean to see something "dangerous" or "unmoral".
Writing unfortunately with a little bit more clothes on than you, dear Ventanabare(I returned on weekend into a rainy Germany after being on Eivissa for two weeks where I was nearly the whole day nude or only in g-string - but the June and July was very hot and sunny here in Germany so I look now a little bit like an African girl with bright hairs and blue eyes - I wish to you that you´ve much occasions this year to come to the same result - and I wished I could take part with you while working on that in your wonderful nudist colony ).
Much love - and I´m sucking your nude nipples, too, searching if there´s some milk in
Nicci
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I was just home for lunch and turned on the tv for a bit. I was watching Blow Out on Bravo about the JONATHAN salon and all of a sudden I see a woman with her baby. Apparently this woman is friends with several of the hairdressers in the salon. She also needs to breastfeed her baby. I suppose she asks someone about it, or mentions to her husband or something that she needs to do it, and what was the reaction? Some guy (not sure if it was her husband or not) tells her, "I'm not comfortable with the breastfeeding in the background." I just about popped a seam! Thankfully, the woman stuck up for her right to feed her child in public, although the man didn't really accept it as her right - he just said, "I understand, you have to do what you have to do." I was kind of annoyed at that guy! Yay for the woman, tho!
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As a mother, I believe that by being naked or at least topless with regularity around my son-- that he will view it as no big deal... and hopefully not become one of "those" guys...
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Lookibvi
That is what we experienced - for our son nudity/boobs/toplessness is no big deal.
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