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As a mother, I believe that by being naked or at least topless with regularity around my son-- that he will view it as no big deal... and hopefully not become one of "those" guys...
I believe this very much, too! There´re so much possibilities to damage the soul of a child - male or female - but it´s a healthy way to teach him or her that mummy doesn´t need a top while sunbathing and swimming and that the boobies are a normal part of mummy´s body and nothing "evil".
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As a mother, I believe that by being naked or at least topless with regularity around my son-- that he will view it as no big deal... and hopefully not become one of "those" guys...
I think you are right. Kids never have a problem with nudity of any sort if their parents don't. I wear a thong at the beach frequently and face some of the same issues women face being topfree. Never has it ever appeared that any child (teenagers excluded) was uncomfortable or objected to my suit. But their parents on occasion have objected. You certainly do get the feeling these kids will be the worse off as adults because of their parent's restrictive attitudes.
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Before my wife and I decided to have children we discussed little issues like g-string swimwear and nude sunbathing and what we would do once we had children. We decided no matter the sex of the child we would continue living our lives. we now have two children and both my wife and I swim and sunbath nude exclusively at our home, we can honestly say we have never worn swimwear in our own pool. And my wife and I do not make a big deal of being nude in front of the children, we want them to not be ashamed of their bodies and to have self confidence for who they are.
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Re: Toplessness around Kids
I'm not concerned about being topless around kids, but sometimes I'll take a good look at their mothers before plopping down right next to them. If Mom is in a conservative one piece, she isn't going to like topless.
Actually the first kid to see me topless was my little brother. I was about 17 and he was 11, and he basically paid no attention to it so I never hid my tits from him after that.
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Nicci72
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@Dear Carly,
when mommy is in a conservative one piece she normally don´t go topless. That´s my experience, too. And sometimes she didn´t like it, too, when other women like me are topless. That´s also my experience.
But mostly it was for me absolutely no problem e.g. at public swimming pools that mommy was in a conservative one piece and aunt Nicola had once again her boobs bare. Not for mommy and not for mommy´s childs and not for me, too. Mommy and I handled our different dress codes as adults - and for the childs it´s all one if our boobs are covered or bared.
Of course toplessness is in my part of the planet still cultural normalcy - not "shocking". So nearly every conservative mommy knows that there´re women who´re "doing" something like "that" - and that "that" women are normally "normal" women, too. In other parts of our planet it´s not such a normalcy - and so the reaction of a conservative mommy is probably:  - look at this b.tch...
I´ve no brother and no sister but kids have seen me topless since I´m sunbathing topless - and that means now since many years. And they nearly never paid an attention to my nude boobs. That started looking only when they reached puberty.
I can remember of course one little funny episode this spring: When I sunbathed topless at the meadow of a public swimming pool, one little boy - maybe round about eight years old - tugged at his (one-piece-)mommy: "Look, she´s wearing nothing! Come on, mommy, look! She has no top on!" But mommy, who layed out on her stomach, only raised her head wearily and said to her boy: "I see it."
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yours Nicci
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The more kids see topless women, and the more people just act naturally and not stupid when topless women are around, the less of a big deal they will think it is.
It is difficult to go topless when there are others around who may disapprove, not because they have a personal problem but, as they tell you "What about the children?" as if some how seeing a boob will rot their brains.
One just has to have the courage to tell these people that if they don't make a big deal about it neither will their kids. Have you notice the people who make the noise are the often the ones who don't actually have kids?
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@JMRuns
For my experiences I can answer to your question that in the - seldom - cases where other people made "noise" about my nude boobs it where almost everytime boys and young males in their late teenage-years or early twenties.
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Always been topless around my kids (B&G) they grew up with mommy this way so as they start teenage years I am not changing. My daughter sometimes hops in the pool topless when its just us at home, she is getting use to her body with time and I think me being topless helps.
With other peoples kids I have been more conservative until one day my sun and about 6 of his friends ran into the pool without warning or much noise and I had radio on just as I was walking up the pool stairs and tieing my hair back in process, so they got the full frontal. My son didn't flinch but some of his friends just stopped dead mouths open.
I just said WTF in my head, and then said hello (got a very polite hello back) and asked them how their mums are, grabbed my drink and got back in and kept my breasts below the water and asked them not to splash at my end of the pool. They soon got over it and got in and did the usual playing and jumping but stayed away.
When I left the pool later (with plenty of stairs) I just made a comment that they are welcome back anytime but my back yard is private and what happens here stays here if you get my drift.
The boys come around more than they used to and I still swim the same and one even had the cheek to ask one day when I was making lunch that it was very hot and we should all go for a swim for which I laughed. I avoid going nude in front of them, but topless is fine and if I take them to the beach its the same. Apprently my son has the coolest mum.
Daughter has asked that I don't go topless in front of her freinds.
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My step-daughters were terrified that anyone would find out about our habitual nudity. My son was cool about it.
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Re: Toplessness around Kids
I have a friend who told his son that he didn't feel obligated to get dressed if (or when) the son graduated from college. In other words, if he didn't want to see a naked dad, he should get a job and place to live.
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